Saturday, March 23, 2013

I Believe...

Recently, I was invited by an IT organization in Bangalore, to talk on “Women empowerment”.
 
What is women empowerment?
 
I asked this question to 15 people. I got 15 different answers.
 
That’s when I realized, though we have heard this term so many times before, it means different things to different people – of course, driven by their own experiences.
 
To me, it is about “Belief in self” – Hence, I spoke about how to empower ourselves as an individual, as a leader and as a citizen.
 
Apart from very few nuances which are gender specific (eg- female gender’s need to interact more with the ecosystem), the concept of empowerment is very much the same for all the genders.
 
For many, empowering is about someone else empowering them. Someone else, approving us as “good” “bad” “ugly”.
 
But to me, the moment you start believing in yourself and allowing yourself to do what you believe in – that’s empowerment.
 
And it is very individualistic.
 
For some people, they would empower themselves for a family cause. For others it would be for a social cause. For yet another group it would be an individual cause. It would be a combination of all these for many.
 
Why do you want to get empowered? To do what? Would it make you happy?
 
Every individual will need to decide for self on this, not because, someone else thinks “That is the right way of life”.
Because, this individual believes, that, this is his/her way of life.
 
Is it difficult? Of course, yes! But not, impossible!
 
Are you empowering yourself to believe it?

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